“It Can’t Happen Here?”

We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for 
maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth. 
Virginia Satir 

We always teach people to hug each other in our workshops and 
seminars. Most people respond by saying, "You could never hug people 
where I work." Are you sure? 
Here is a letter from a graduate of one of our seminars. 

Dear Jack, 

I started out this day in rather a bleak mood. My friend Rosalind 

stopped over and asked me if I was giving hugs today. I just grumbled 

something but then I began to think about hugs and everything during 

the week. I would look at the sheet you gave us on How to Keep the 

Seminar Alive and I would cringe when I got to the part about giving 

and getting hugs because I couldn't imagine giving hugs to the people at 


Well I decided to make it "hugs day" and I started giving hugs to the 

customers who came to my counter. It was great to see how people just 

brightened up. An MBA student jumped up on top of the counter and 

did a dance. Some people actually came back and asked for more. These 

two Xerox repair guys, who were kind of just walking along not really 

talking to each other, were so surprised, they just woke up and suddenly 

were talking and laughing down the hall.
It feels like I hugged everybody in the Wharton Business School, plus 

whatever was wrong with me this morning, which included some 

physical pain, is all gone. I'm sorry that this letter is so long but I'm just 

really excited. The neatest thing was, at one point there were about 10 

people all hugging each other out in front of my counter. I couldn't 

believe this was happening. 

Love, Pamela Rogers 

P.S.: On the way home I hugged a policeman on 37th Street. He said, 

"Wow! Policemen never get hugs. Are you sure you don't want to throw 

something at me?" 

Another seminar graduate sent us the following piece on hugging: 

Hugging Is 

Hugging is healthy. It helps the immune system, cures depression, 

reduces stress and induces sleep. It's invigorating, rejuvenating and has 

no unpleasant side effects. Hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug. 

Hugging is all natural. It is organic, naturally sweet, no artificial 

ingredients, nonpolluting, environmentally friendly and 100 percent 


Hugging is the ideal gift. Great for any occasion, fun to give and 

receive, shows you care, comes with its awn wrapping and, of course, 

fully returnable.
Hugging is practically perfect. No batteries to wear out, inflation-proof, 

nonfattening, no monthly payments, theft-proof and nontaxable. 

Hugging is an underutilized resource with magical powers. When we 

open our hearts and arms, we encourage others to do the same. 

Think of the people in your life. Are there any words you'd like to say? 

Are there any hugs you want to share? Are you waiting and hoping 

someone else will ask first? Please don't wait! Initiate! "

Charles Faraone 

Jack Canfield  ("Chicken Soup for the Soul")

    Live your beautiful life! While there is life, there is hope!